Category: Relationships
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Say “No” to Relationship Hoppers
While I won’t fully rule out dating someone who is divorced, or recently out of a long-term relationship, I will forever rule out dating a recent divorcée or dumpee. Pretty sure dumpee isn’t a word, but that’s okay. There are no rules here. So why am I adamantly against freshly single partners? Simple: Relationship hopping […]
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Your (Unofficial) Guide to Dating in ANY Year
If you’re anything like me, you love a good rom-com. In fact, He’s Just Not That Into You remains one of my faves. Thinking of that film, in particular, there’s a scene where a boy pushes a girl down on the playground. Naturally, she cries to her mom, who provides some toxic reassurance: “Do you […]
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30 Things I Wish I Knew Before 30: Part III
As we near my final days of life at 30, I wanted to share the last segment of my 30 Things I Wish I Knew series. You can find Part I here And Part II right here You can’t heal what you don’t feel. Healing isn’t fun, contrary to what aesthetic TikTok shows you. It goes deeper […]
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Not a Hell Yes is a Hell No
What we both share is that neither of us was the type that sought out love. We believed in living our best life, chasing our dreams, and being open to something if it happened organically. And that’s something that isn’t talked about enough these days Too often you have people settling for mediocre and not just in relationships, but jobs, friendships, and experiences. Life is so short, and we need to stop accepting the bare minimum. Perfect (or our definition of it) exists, so quit accepting otherwise.