Category: Advice
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You Can’t Take Your Beamer to the Afterlife (And Other Harsh Truths About Chasing Stuff That Doesn’t Matter)
We’re all chasing titles, toys, and trophies, but here’s the hard truth: none of it comes with us when we die. Whether you believe in heaven, hell, or just decomposing into dirt, your possessions won’t matter. What will? The legacy you build, the people you impact, and the way you lived…
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Girlypop, Not Every Hobby Needs to Be Monetized: Bring Back Doing Shit for Joy
In today’s hustle culture, it’s easy to feel like your hobbies need to be monetized. But not everything you love needs to be a business. Reclaim the joy of doing shit just for fun, without the pressure of making a profit.
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You’re Not “Just Being Honest.” You’re an Asshole: The VERY Fine Line Between Brutal Honesty and Straight-Up Bitterness
Honesty is important, but when it crosses the line into cruelty, it’s not real, it’s just toxic. Learn how to tell the difference between a friend who’s truly being honest and one who’s simply miserable.
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I Consigned 19 Items with The RealReal. Here’s How It Went
I consigned 19 items with The RealReal, one of the top luxury resale platforms, and wanted to share how the process went. From listing to selling. In this post, I break down the steps, challenges, and lessons learned while navigating the world of high-end consignment.
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Grieving Friendships: Growing Up Sometimes Means Growing Apart
No one talks enough about the quiet heartbreak of outgrowing friendships. As I approach my mid-thirties, I’ve come to realize that some of the most powerful connections in my life came from unexpected places, while others I thought would last forever quietly faded. Today I’m talking about the bittersweet truth…
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Maybe You’re Not Everyone’s Cup of Tea Because You’re Their Cup of Ayahuasca
You’re not too intense. You’re just the kind of presence that makes people pause and reflect. And not everyone is ready to do that. Whether it’s work, friendships, or family, some people pull away, and it’s not because you’re wrong, but because you’re real.