Category: Advice

• Career

  Everyone Wants The Cheat Code

  raw, reflective essay on how people mistake mentorship for access, and success for information. Drawing from experience in branding and creative work, it explores why everyone wants the “cheat code” but no one wants the process that creates real outcomes.

  May 30, 2026
• Advice

  Your Nervous System Is Only as Regulated as the Environments You Stay In

  Journaling, magnesium mocktails, and meditation can help, but they can’t fix a toxic workplace or an unhealthy relationship. Why nervous system regulation starts with the environments you stay in and the stress you normalize.

  May 30, 2026
• Advice

  Stop Drinking From Every Cup Just Because You’re Thirsty

  A raw, modern essay on emotional hunger, inconsistent relationships, and learning to stop confusing attention with real connection while reclaiming self-worth and singlehood.

  May 23, 2026
• Advice Relationships

  Not Everything Needs Closure to Be Over

  You don’t need a perfect explanation to leave what’s hurting you. A blunt, modern take on boundaries, quitting, and protecting your peace as you get older.

  May 3, 2026
• Advice

  You’re Tired, Not Broken: Start Over Without Making It a Big Deal

  A blunt, honest take on burnout, exhaustion, and starting over. If you’re running on empty, this is your reminder that one bad day doesn’t define your life.

  April 15, 2026
• Advice

  If You Haven’t Done the Work, Stop Showing Up: The Truth About Dating, Friendships, and Emotional Responsibility

  A blunt, honest take on emotional unavailability in dating and friendships, and why real growth means stepping back, self-awareness, and doing the internal work before showing up in relationships.

  April 9, 2026