Category: Advice
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Not Everything Needs Closure to Be Over
You don’t need a perfect explanation to leave what’s hurting you. A blunt, modern take on boundaries, quitting, and protecting your peace as you get older.
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You’re Tired, Not Broken: Start Over Without Making It a Big Deal
A blunt, honest take on burnout, exhaustion, and starting over. If you’re running on empty, this is your reminder that one bad day doesn’t define your life.
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If You Haven’t Done the Work, Stop Showing Up: The Truth About Dating, Friendships, and Emotional Responsibility
A blunt, honest take on emotional unavailability in dating and friendships, and why real growth means stepping back, self-awareness, and doing the internal work before showing up in relationships.
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Are You Living for the Resume or the Eulogy?
A raw and honest reflection on the question “Are you living for your resume or your eulogy?” and what it reveals about anxiety, purpose, faith, and the hard, messy decisions that shape a meaningful life.
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In My Thirties I Stopped Asking “Why” (And Just Maybe I Broke the Cycle)
I used to think if I understood why someone hurt me, I’d feel better. That was my whole approach to relationships, especially the messy ones. I’d replay conversations, analyze tone, reread texts, try to connect emotional dots that probably weren’t even there. If we are being honest, I’d even drive…
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Why You Don’t Need the Last Word With a Toxic Ex
I recently got a text, voicemail, and an email from a toxic ex. New numbers, new accounts, the usual circle back move that happens when you’re no longer available. In the past, I would’ve drafted a long message. Something that laid out every slight, every boundary they ignored, every way…
The Girl in Gucci Glasses 