The Girl in Gucci Glasses

Your Unfiltered Guide to Relationships, Fashion, and Wellness

emotional availability

August 26, 2026

Being Kept Around Is Not the Same as Being Chosen

One of the harder things to learn in dating is that someone can genuinely like you and still not choose you. They can enjoy your company, miss you when you’re gone, reach out when they want to see you, and keep some version of a relationship going without actually wanting to build one with you.… Continue reading

Relationships

adult relationships, being chosen, being single, choosing a partner, commitment, commitment issues, Dating, dating after 30, dating in your 30s, dating standards, emotional availability, healthy relationships, intentional dating, loneliness, long term relationships, marriage, modern dating, modern relationships, relationship advice, relationship patterns, relationship red flags, Relationships, self worth, settling in relationships, single in your 30s, toxic relationships
July 3, 2026

Understanding the Cycle of Push-Pull Dynamics

 Closure in emotionally unavailable relationships often doesn’t come from conversation or understanding. It comes from distance, repetition, and finally seeing the pattern for what it actually is. Continue reading

Advice, Relationships

anxious attachment, attachment dynamics, attachment patterns, avoidant attachment, closure in relationships, dating psychology, emotional availability, emotional detachment, emotional inconsistency, emotional labor, emotionally unavailable relationships, inconsistent relationships, intermittent reinforcement relationships, letting go of someone, mixed signals in relationships, modern dating dynamics, narcissistic dynamics, nervous system and attachment, no contact rule, push pull relationships, relationship burnout, relationship closure, relationship cycles, relationship patterns, self abandonment in relationships, situationship dynamics, toxic relationship patterns, trauma bonding, why do they come back
May 23, 2026

Stop Drinking From Every Cup Just Because You’re Thirsty

A raw, modern essay on emotional hunger, inconsistent relationships, and learning to stop confusing attention with real connection while reclaiming self-worth and singlehood. Continue reading

Advice

attachment style, Boundaries, dating culture, dating psychology, emotional availability, healing, loneliness, modern relationships, relationship advice, self-worth, singlehood, situationships
April 9, 2026

If You Haven’t Done the Work, Stop Showing Up: The Truth About Dating, Friendships, and Emotional Responsibility

A blunt, honest take on emotional unavailability in dating and friendships, and why real growth means stepping back, self-awareness, and doing the internal work before showing up in relationships. Continue reading

Advice

Boundaries, burnout, communication skills, dating advice, emotional availability, emotional intelligence, friendship dynamics, healing journey, Mental Health, modern dating, personal growth, Relationships, self-awareness, self-improvement, toxic patterns

About Me

Hi bestie! I’m Jasmine, the girl behind The Girl in Gucci Glasses. I grew up mostly in Europe as a military brat, which gave me a love for people, different cultures, and seeing life from more than one perspective. A health scare in 2019 also taught me not to spend so much time worrying about the little things or waiting for the “right” moment. So I talk about dating, style, getting older, ambition, and whatever else I’m figuring out along the way. I’ll tell you what I think, share what I’m learning, and hopefully make you feel a little less alone in your own messy middle. Come hang out. There’s always room for one more.

emotional availability

Being Kept Around Is Not the Same as Being Chosen

Understanding the Cycle of Push-Pull Dynamics

Stop Drinking From Every Cup Just Because You’re Thirsty

If You Haven’t Done the Work, Stop Showing Up: The Truth About Dating, Friendships, and Emotional Responsibility