The Girl in Gucci Glasses

Your Unfiltered Guide to Relationships, Fashion, and Wellness

Relationships

Welcome to my relationships blog category, where I dive into the complex world of dating, sex, and love. Whether you’re navigating the modern dating scene, looking to spice up your sex life, or seeking advice on how to build a lasting and fulfilling relationship, I’ve got you covered. You can look forward to invaluable insights, practical tips, and thought-provoking discussions to help you navigate the ups and downs of relationships in the 21st century.

August 26, 2026

Being Kept Around Is Not the Same as Being Chosen

One of the harder things to learn in dating is that someone can genuinely like you and still not choose you. They can enjoy your company, miss you when you’re gone, reach out when they want to see you, and keep some version of a relationship going without actually wanting to build one with you.… Continue reading

Relationships

adult relationships, being chosen, being single, choosing a partner, commitment, commitment issues, Dating, dating after 30, dating in your 30s, dating standards, emotional availability, healthy relationships, intentional dating, loneliness, long term relationships, marriage, modern dating, modern relationships, relationship advice, relationship patterns, relationship red flags, Relationships, self worth, settling in relationships, single in your 30s, toxic relationships
July 3, 2026

Understanding the Cycle of Push-Pull Dynamics

 Closure in emotionally unavailable relationships often doesn’t come from conversation or understanding. It comes from distance, repetition, and finally seeing the pattern for what it actually is. Continue reading

Advice, Relationships

anxious attachment, attachment dynamics, attachment patterns, avoidant attachment, closure in relationships, dating psychology, emotional availability, emotional detachment, emotional inconsistency, emotional labor, emotionally unavailable relationships, inconsistent relationships, intermittent reinforcement relationships, letting go of someone, mixed signals in relationships, modern dating dynamics, narcissistic dynamics, nervous system and attachment, no contact rule, push pull relationships, relationship burnout, relationship closure, relationship cycles, relationship patterns, self abandonment in relationships, situationship dynamics, toxic relationship patterns, trauma bonding, why do they come back
June 14, 2026

What I Learned About My Own Boundaries in Emotionally Intense Relationships

I’ve been thinking about a relationship I was in last year that I still don’t really know how to neatly explain. It didn’t begin or end in any clean way I can easily point to, which is part of what made it so hard to make sense of while I was inside of it. It… Continue reading

Relationships

attachment patterns, breakups and healing, dating experiences, emotional boundaries, emotional regulation, emotional safety vs intensity, emotionally intense relationships, letting go of relationships, no contact breakup, personal growth relationships, relationship red flags, self abandonment in relationships, self trust in relationships
May 3, 2026

Not Everything Needs Closure to Be Over

You don’t need a perfect explanation to leave what’s hurting you. A blunt, modern take on boundaries, quitting, and protecting your peace as you get older. Continue reading

Advice, Relationships

adulting, Boundaries, burnout, emotional wellbeing, healthy boundaries, leaving toxic situations, life advice, Mental Health, personal growth, protecting your peace, quitting your job, self-preservation, self-respect, toxic relationships, walking away

About Me

Hi bestie! I’m Jasmine, the girl behind The Girl in Gucci Glasses. I grew up mostly in Europe as a military brat, which gave me a love for people, different cultures, and seeing life from more than one perspective. A health scare in 2019 also taught me not to spend so much time worrying about the little things or waiting for the “right” moment. So I talk about dating, style, getting older, ambition, and whatever else I’m figuring out along the way. I’ll tell you what I think, share what I’m learning, and hopefully make you feel a little less alone in your own messy middle. Come hang out. There’s always room for one more.

Relationships

Being Kept Around Is Not the Same as Being Chosen

Understanding the Cycle of Push-Pull Dynamics

What I Learned About My Own Boundaries in Emotionally Intense Relationships

Not Everything Needs Closure to Be Over