Let’s Talk About Conditional Love.

The kind where someone only shows up for you when it’s easy, when it benefits them, or when no one else is around—that’s not love. That’s convenience.

And baby, you are not a pit stop on someone else’s emotional detour.

At some point, we have to ask ourselves the hard question: Am I being loved, or am I just being used to fill a temporary void?

Convenience Isn’t Connection

You know the type. They disappear when you need them most—but magically pop back in when they need something. A favor. Validation. Intimacy. Company.

They text you at 11:49 PM like they didn’t ghost you for four weeks.

They don’t want you—they want access to you.
And you? You keep hoping they’ll finally see your worth.

Here’s the hard truth: they already see it.
They’re just hoping you don’t.

Why It Hurts So Much

Because you kept showing up.

Because you saw potential and called it a future.

Because you ignored your gut in favor of the “maybe.”

Maybe they’ll change.
Maybe they’re just scared.
Maybe this time will be different.

But maybe isn’t a relationship strategy.

Walking Away Is the Real Power Move

It’s not easy. You’ll miss the idea of them more than the reality. You’ll second guess yourself. You’ll want to respond to that “I miss you” text.

But leaving someone who only loves you when it’s convenient is how you finally make room for someone who shows up consistently—not conditionally.

5 Signs They Only Love You When It’s Convenient

1. They’re emotionally absent unless it benefits them.
2. You initiate most conversations or plans.
3. They “love bomb” after you pull away—then disappear again.
4. They’re inconsistent with effort and affection.
5. Your intuition keeps whispering: This isn’t it.

Here’s What Walking Away Actually Looks Like

• Not responding to the breadcrumb texts.
• Saying no without guilt.
• Refusing to shrink yourself just to be tolerated.
• Choosing peace over potential.

Because someone loving you on their time, on their terms, isn’t love—it’s control.

Don’t Settle for Seasonal Love

Bestie, you deserve someone who loves you in the mundane, not just the moments of convenience.
Someone who shows up on Tuesday afternoons, not just Saturday nights.
Someone who chooses you fully—not just when it’s easy.

So walk away, bestie. Quietly. Boldly. Fully.

And don’t ever look back.