Category: Advice
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Single, Centered, and Unbothered: The Anti-Situationship Mindset
There’s a strange tension in modern singlehood. You’re either expected to broadcast your independence with the volume of an NFL halftime show, or quietly nurse the assumption that you’re secretly yearning for a plus-one. In between those two extremes sits the rest of us…people who are genuinely fine, building lives…
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Why Pantone’s Cloud Dancer Is the Most Disappointing Color of the Year Yet
Pantone has announced the 2026 Color of the Year, and it’s… PANTONE 11-4201. Also known as Cloud Dancer. A soft, airy white. Or as I like to call it, The Landlord Special. A color so subtle it practically disappears. And honestly? It’s a major letdown. Pantone frames Cloud Dancer as a “whisper…
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Get Free. Stay Free. A Year-End Reminder We All Need
As the year wraps itself up in glittery resolutions and we prepare for the inevitable influx of “new year, new me” nonsense, I’ve been doing my own annual sit-down with reality. No candles, no ritual baths, no curated moon-water manifestation nonsense, I mean the real reflection. The kind that feels…
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Spotify Wrapped 2025: Why Spotify Still Wins the UI War and Why Supporting Real Artists Matters
A no-BS look at Spotify Wrapped Day: the good UI, the chaotic listening habits, and the reminder that real musicians still matter in a world obsessed with AI shortcuts.
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Quit Explaining Yourself to People Who Are Committed to Misunderstanding You
You know those moments when you’re talking to someone, sharing your thoughts, and you can just feel that they’ve already decided they’re not going to get it? It’s like no matter how much you try to explain yourself, they’re just not interested in understanding. Welcome to the club. And honestly? It’s time…
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The Strength in Walking Away From What Almost Works
As the year winds down, I have been sitting with a truth that deserves more attention: the strength to walk away from something that almost fits. Not the disasters and not the obvious no’s. I am talking about the close enough things, the nearly aligned relationship, the job that is…
The Girl in Gucci Glasses 