The Girl in Gucci Glasses

Hi babe.

You’re probably feeling all of the things right now, and that’s good.

Cry. Scream. Talk. Do it all. Just feel what you need to feel so you can heal.

Whether or not you were the one to initiate it is irrelevant because it’s still not exactly pleasant.

But that’s neither here nor there.

Let this post serve as your reminder of the total badass you are. 

We are all deserving of the purest of love, whether or not we realize it. 

When I tell you that there is not a single individual on this entire planet that is worth your tears, or you doubting your worth, I mean it. 

You are and have always been enough. And you always will be. Just because someone fails to see that doesn’t make it any less true. 

When the person meant to be in your life shows up, you will immediately see how wrong everyone else was. You will never again experience the doubt or constant need for reassurance that you did from other relationships. 

This all might sound cliche, but it’s fact.

You deserve love – a crazy, stupid, and amazing kind of love.

Part of growing up means dating the wrong ones. Lord knows I’ve dated my fair share. But when you know better, you do better. As I figured out who I was, I figured out who I wasn’t. As a result, I began to realize who I didn’t want. In doing this, I stopped entertaining people who didn’t match my energy or goals. 

I used to fight so hard to try and make every situation or relationship work. I never wanted to be seen as a quitter. But that’s the kicker, you can’t be the only one trying.

Sometimes people will make you feel worthless or undesirable. You can’t change these types of people. There’s no making them feel bad or guilty, so stop trying! 

It’s a hard pill to swallow, but in life, you will find that sometimes you will give more than what someone else was willing to give you. Move on. Better is out there. You will not find completion in another being, just as you will not find happiness in the very one that is ripping it away from you. 

When someone wants to be with you, you will know. When they don’t, you will be left with more questions than answers. Their poor behaviour is all of the closure you need. Now, hit block and keep moving forward.