Category: Advice
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Don’t Waste Your Best Years on a “Maybe” – How to Recognize When You’re Being Strung Along
If you’re stuck in a long-term relationship with someone who isn’t serious, it’s time to stop wasting your youth. Here’s why you need to stop waiting and start living
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Why “I Don’t Deserve You” Is Not a Compliment and What It Really Means in a Relationship
When someone tells you they don’t deserve you, it might sound vulnerable, but it’s often a subtle form of emotional manipulation. Here’s why you should stop seeing it as romantic, and start seeing it as the red flag it is.
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If You’re Chasing, You’re Not Choosing. How to Date with Intention
In 34 years, I’ve learned one golden rule of dating: the less you chase men, the harder they chase you. Desperation repels. Confidence attracts. Here’s how to stop over-functioning in dating and let him show up—or show himself out.
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When God Makes You Uncomfortable, Listen
Feeling uneasy in your job, relationship, or life? That discomfort might be divine. Here’s why God makes you uncomfortable in places you’re not meant to stay.
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The Burned Haystack Method: The No-BS Dating Strategy That Actually Works
I’m 34, currently single, and I’ve been on more dating apps than I care to admit. If it exists, I’ve swiped on it — Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, Raya, even those weird niche ones that promise “a deeper connection” but just end in existential dread and temporary validation. After nearly a…
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