Category: Advice
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Reminders for When Life Feels Heavy

Hey, bestie. I know that some days can feel like a heavy weight on our shoulders. It’s like the world is pressing down on us and life just feels overwhelming. But I want you to know that you are not alone. We all have those days when it feels like…
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Are You Emotionally Available for Dating? Be Honest Before You Decide
For a long time, emotional availability was not the point. Independence was. Building a life I actually liked was. Dating happened casually, without much expectation, and for me, that felt natural. Then your thirties arrive and the context shifts. More people are in relationships. Fewer are dating casually. Even if…
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Moving On: Why Going Back to Past Relationships is a Step Backwards

In my twenties I definitely walked the line of completely emotionally unavailable and honestly, a little cold. Listen, I wasn’t an asshole or anything but I was the definition of a “boss babe.” I pretty much only focused on college, work, philanthropy and my social life. When it came to…
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Reflecting on Lent: Giving Up Alcohol and Finding Clarity
With today being Ash Wednesday, I’ve been thinking about Lent and the idea of sacrifice. This year, I decided to give up alcohol. At first, I didn’t think it would feel like a real sacrifice. I don’t drink every day and I’m not reckless. But as the weeks go on,…
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Stop Settling and Build a Dating Roster That Works
Modern dating is kinda messy! I mean, it’s honestly exhausting, and sometimes outright ridiculous. Ghosting, breadcrumbing, endless texting with no payoff, flaky plans…dating feels like a full-time job with no benefits. A dating roster is your secret weapon. It lets you date intentionally, protect your standards, and keep your heart intact while…
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Mirror of Love: How Your Partner Reflects You
When it comes to relationships, many of us have heard the phrase, “You attract what you are.” But what does that really mean? In the world of dating, the person you choose to share your life with often acts as a mirror. This mirror reflects your inner self. Understanding this…