life in your 30s
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September Reset? Maybe You Don’t Need One
September doesn’t need to be a fresh start. Sometimes it’s just a checkpoint, a chance to look at who you were in January, recognize how much you’ve changed, and decide what you actually want to carry into the rest of the year. Continue reading
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The Absurd Myth of Having It All Figured Out by 30
They said by 30, I’d have it all figured out — career, love, purpose, savings, skincare. I’m about to turn 35, and let me tell you: that promise was a lie. But maybe not in a bad way. Continue reading
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We Don’t Have to All Be Friends: A 30-Something’s Guide to Letting Go Without Guilt
Your 30s are not about collecting people. And here’s what I mean by that: Your 20s were about expansion. Your 30s are about curating. By now, you’ve survived at least one friendship breakup that hurt more than a situationship. You’ve outgrown group chats that drain you. You’ve realized some people only liked the version of you… Continue reading
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