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September 6, 2025

The Sunk Cost Fallacy: Why We Stay Too Long in Things We’ve Outgrown

The sunk cost fallacy isn’t just about money—it’s the reason you’re still texting that one friend, staying in that job, or holding onto a relationship you’ve outgrown. Here’s how to spot it, break free from it, and start choosing what serves you now, and not what used to. Continue reading

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May 17, 2025

Signs Someone Wants to Break Up But Won’t Say It: When They Start Making You Feel Like You’re the Problem

Not every breakup starts with a conversation. These are the signs someone wants to break up but won’t say it, including emotional distance, changed behavior, and the confusing stage before the end. Continue reading

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May 13, 2025

Dating in Your 30s and the Relief of Not Decoding Everything

Dating in your 30s can mean overthinking mixed signals and explaining inconsistent behavior. The Burned Haystack mindset offers a different way to look at modern dating. Continue reading

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May 2, 2025

Learning to Walk Away From People Who Only Love You When It’s Convenient

Ever felt like someone only loves you when it’s easy for them? That’s not love—it’s convenience. In this post, I break down the signs of conditional affection, share the truth about emotional breadcrumbing, and talk about why walking away is the boldest, most freeing move you can make. Continue reading

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About Me

Hi bestie! I’m Jasmine, the girl behind The Girl in Gucci Glasses. I grew up mostly in Europe as a military brat, which gave me a love for people, different cultures, and seeing life from more than one perspective. A health scare in 2019 also taught me not to spend so much time worrying about the little things or waiting for the “right” moment. So I talk about dating, style, getting older, ambition, and whatever else I’m figuring out along the way. I’ll tell you what I think, share what I’m learning, and hopefully make you feel a little less alone in your own messy middle. Come hang out. There’s always room for one more.

relationship advice

The Sunk Cost Fallacy: Why We Stay Too Long in Things We’ve Outgrown

Signs Someone Wants to Break Up But Won’t Say It: When They Start Making You Feel Like You’re the Problem

Dating in Your 30s and the Relief of Not Decoding Everything

Learning to Walk Away From People Who Only Love You When It’s Convenient